On Sunday I wrote about our great day mapping out our wedding ride. We had a really good day together. We are so in sync that sometimes it takes me by surprise.
Unfortunately, the good feeling was ruined the next day by Brian's daughter texting him to say that they would not be coming to stay with us for the week. That she felt it would work better if they just came every other weekend and sometimes visited after school. Brian was so heartbroken over it. But, after a few more texts in the evening, (she wouldn't answer when he tried to actually call.) we have come to the conclusion that she didn't have her phone at all. I seriously believe that her mother had her phone all along and was the one pulling the strings and masterminded the whole thing. There were too many clues to that fact.
All because she is jealous that we are happy together. Jealous that I am younger, prettier, can actually work a real job and make my own money, happier, etc. You get the idea. She is afraid of the girls liking me better. She is afraid that they will eventually want to stay with us and not her. Such paranoia. I could care less if any of that happens. I just want a happy existence with no fighting over clothes, who pays what bills, who gets to claim which child on taxes. Any of it. It's maddening. Kids are a lot of work and we should be a team in raising them, but her mind has become so warped that it can never happen.
I believe that when she is done using the girls to hurt Brian that they will be the ones hurt most of all. And, what can we do to stop it??
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
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Oh, I know what you are going through. Unfortunately, sometimes the only way to resolve these issues is to go to court. I know how unpleasant that is, but if the girls want to come to your house, and there is an order that says they are to go to your house, and the ex won't let them --- you have papers essentially forcing the issue. Also, the girls need to tell their mom they want to spend time at your home, and they aren't going to stop loving her because of you. If they stop loving her, it will be because of her. Again, I know how hard all this is, I"m going through a lot of the same issues right now.
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